Of What's To Come

My word where does the time go? A whole week since posting? Unheard of! Deplorable! Whatever. So I mentioned on the Facebook that interim classes were getting in my way. No lie. 8am-noon on Mondays through Thursday. It can really dampen the spirits of a young socialite as myself, even if it is the absolutely most useful and educating class I have taken this far at the Capstone. I try to ignore my scholarly obligation, however, when the moon shines on my soul and turn up a good bottle of merlot anygay. There's a strange air in town. I feel the emptiness where once so many of my queers were always afoot. No wine wednesdays or parties around every corner is just straight up depressing.

But moving right along, I would like to introduce a little project persay. Last semester there was a heavy theme of the social scene. I wanted to really promote an outward and unabashed identity that was present in the Druid City. We need that. We need to see each other not afraid to be who we are. Someone from Birmingham once argued that there can't be a gay scene in Tuscaloosa and that I only thought that because I was one of the very few who was comfortable with being so out. Now I think CampusQueer, with your help, has disproved that. We went from Guerilla Gay Bar and First Friday once a month, to Gen & Juice once a week, to having our own damn bar again, not seen since the days of yore at Michael's.  I don't know if any of you have realized but that is a HUGE fucking deal. Don't take it for granted. Support your queer events! I'm proud of the progress we are making!

Now back to that little project I mentioned. I want to take the summer to investigate this town and what it has to offer it. Kinda like a travel guide for the T. I want to promote a sense of community too. So beginning soon, perhaps after this horrific interim, I want to bring to you CampusQueer's "What's the 'T'?" It's still all in the works and depends on cooperation from local businesses, but who can deny free advertising? Even if it is directed towards a bunch of loose-lipped queens, jort-wearing lumberjacks, hags, fags, and trannies of all shapes and sizes. We are damn good business I'd say. Stay tuned and let's make this happen. I'll continue to see you OutAbout!

Over and Out,
CampusQueer

No One Understands You Like Mom







So for this very special Mother's Day 2010, I thought I'd share a little some thing about me and my mother. A little insight perhaps. Let's discuss the topic of my gay self and my mother. It's an odd situation. She knows. I know she knows. Everyone knows. But it is highly unspoken. It all starts back in my wee days. I can distinctly recall a day on the way to church when my mother looked at me sternly with a finely penciled arched brow and instructed me, "David, could you please not act so damn . . . silly today?" Translated this should be read: "Don't fag out you little ass-pirate!"Cue to freshman year in high school when mother finds where I've been looking up information about homosexuality online. And sophomore year when she found when I'd been looking at gay porn. And junior year when she found where I'd been looking at gay porn. Each time ended with a very long conversation in which she is angry with me, asks me what the Bible says about it, and asking what is wrong with me. Each time I never spoke, looked at the floor, and waited for her to say what she needed to say. I never spoke about being gay for the record. Until I came to UA, I never spoke to anyone about it. A very trying time indeed. Don't judge her yet, I implore you. There's hope yet.

There seems to have been a shift. She uses the word "fabulous" an awful lot as of late. Last Decemeber we were at the loft and she rifles through the credit card bill and asks, "What exactly is the Jungle?" I've used her computer to do CQ posts so much that if you so much as look at the "C" on the keyboard, CampusQueer pops up. I'm trying to reach out and make a bridge and I know she is too. It's not about coming out to her. That's done. Now it's just a matter of acceptance and dialogue. Can we ever cross that line? I think so. She is an amazing woman. I love her. We are closer than ever these days. I just need to know that I can bring a boyfriend to Thanksgiving dinner so that she can love them too, you know. And that I can talk to her and not censor myself whenever she is around. This all cues me to wonder what YOUR situations are like. Who is out? Who completely hides it? Who goes boy-watching together? We all think we know each other, but some have these separate lives they lead to keep the waters still on the homefront. Whatever you may do, be happy with you. That is all the Queer can ask.

Happy Mother's day to all out there. Biological mothers, second mothers, drag mothers, whatever. Where ever your mother may be, smile for her. She will smile back.

Over and Out,
CampusQueer

Manic Mondays the Right Way



Drunk Bitch of the Week: A Real Bitch and a Real Lady

Found a real piece of work this time around at Icon. This bitch tried to get in my face outside when I was getting onto her other friend's drunk bitch-ass for trying to drive home waste-faced. So what if I was slapping him around to get his attention? Apparently I was the only one who cared about him driving drunk/doing things he shouldn't. And I don't even really like him. So to you gurl, you are tragic. Your top was tragic. Stay the fuck out.

She's my Phi Mu sister. She dearly wanted to be DBotW. Who could say "No" to a face like that? Congrats Laura! 


Over and Out,
CampusQueer

OutAbout: Dead Week Has Never Been More Alive

I am exhausted girl. It has been one hell of a weekend. Seeing all your beautiful faces and reveling in the end of an amazing semester was just tee-top-terrific. I wish Spring '10 could last just a little longer. One more Guerilla. One more wine wednesday. One more of it all. I have a lot of things I want to say right now, but I'll save that for the special day on Thursday: the one semester anniversary of CQ! So stay tuned. And now onwards to the OutAbout scrapbook.




Dance Alabama! End of the Year Party: Sponsored by Ricky Martin, Homosexual

This night ended in a signature David blackout. Great punch apparently! 



APO's (Guerilla Theatre) Alphies After Party!
Very special people. And had to get a shot with Jake Boyd. Jake is officially Spring '10's "It Boy." I have not gone one day without some homosexual telling me how hard they were for him. Perhaps it's because of his HUGE . . . talent? 



G-Spot at Icon: Featuring Scandalous and Necole Luv Dupree
Didn't get to bed 'til 7am. Absurd night. Breaking into friend's trucks with plastic knives. Hookah bar late night crave fix. Cop hat for all. And a Drunk Bitch of the Week found! Soon to be revealed. (This one was a actual bitch too. Could cut her.)



Shelby Sams B'day Bash / Marriage to Samantha Steel
HotMess of a fake tranny wedding in the heart of Alabama. It's what God intended right? Happy Burfenday Shelby! 



Spectrum, Icon, Brickhouse, and Capstone Alliance present LoveGame Spring Gayla
Had a blast emceeing the night along with Bambi Kira. We raised alot of money for WAAO and so glad to see such a great turnout and thanks to the good sports in the date auction! 



Final Guerilla of the Year

So I didn't want to sit there taking photos of all the senior send-offs first off. And I stepped a foot right at the beginning of the intermission after leaving LoveGame. Otherwise, I just wanted to officially say "THANK YOU!" to the amazing people of Guerilla Theatre who, once a month, bring us into the round at Allen Bales and share everything the have to offer just for us. Everytime I go, Guerilla is just the antidote I need for anything and everything. I leave filled up with absolute inspiration and deep satisfaction for my life, except for not being up on stage with you (which I plan to change next year.) And to the seniors, well I sure as hell expect your underlings to step up to what you made so amazing this year. And of course we love our hosts, the president and vice-president of APO, Glenn (official GingerQueer) and Mistah Bobbi. Congratulations to the new APO officers pictured to the right. Give us what we crave! And "All the Things That I've Done" was something I will forever remember from last night. Again, thank you so much. You made me laugh, cry, scream out, and pee my pants a little bit during "Buttons." 

And today started the seniors' final cabarets, featuring Dianna Duffy. Opening with one of my favorites songs from Scot Alan (from a recent CQ post) as well as "Poor Unfortunate Souls" from Disney's The Little Mermaid on Broadway. She was spectacular. She will definitely be missed from the UA stage. I'm glad to have come to know her this past month and wish it could have been more. I missed the next performance at 5 to meet mother in Hoover, but will keep you informed on the FB of upcoming cabaret's this week. Last about an hour and are free and are amazing! A worthy break from finals for sure. 


I should probably start doing some studying, but that's not the CampusQueer style. Jetting off to a party hosted by Scandalous! Thank you to everyone who made my weekend complete. 



Over and Out,
CampusQueer